性‧蝶園‧跨性別 Sex / TG Group / Transgender

前幾次，參加完TG蝶園聚會跟朋友分享，
他問：「聽說第三性的聚會都是......」
「都是什麼......？」「轟趴。」
促狹回答：「是啊！你要不要來參加？」「我不敢！」
「騙你的啦！蝶園每次都有系統的主題，而且有學校教授主持」

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11月3日的聚會還在討論著師資培訓與蝶園網站首頁的事，
都五點多了，底下似乎有人騷動著，輕聲喊著「sex, sex, sex......」
有飢渴成這樣嗎？還是我聽錯了？

沒錯！
這次討論主題的確是：「跨性別者的性」這真是個複雜的大話題。
單就MTF（男變女）好了，大眾可能認為，那MTF必定喜歡男啦！
變成女人了，還和女人搞同性戀嗎？那還變性做什麼？
甚至部份同志亦是如此認為。
在MTF裡喜歡女性的也不少，性別認同與性傾向是兩碼子事，
但多數的大眾搞不清:p 這是件很難解釋的事情；
總而言之，當我們清楚知道喜歡一個人，
不是因為他／她的性別，而是對方的特質吸引自己。
就像會喜歡MTF跨性別的男人，就愛女性特質在男體展現，
愛這個人的特質就對了，管她帶不帶把，是吧？

一些夥伴也分享了MTF到拉子圈的經驗，
FTM（女變男）到gay圈子的經驗，
FTM被誤認為gay的趣事，還有一些有趣的分享......
無奈時間有限，何老師只好要大家下回再分享囉！

我還是搞不懂，FTM為何有這種癖好？
嗯！人家喜歡就好了，我自己想這麼多做啥？
尊重為要！

I shared with my friend that I went to the transgender group.
He said, "people said meeting of transgender always held for........"
"For what?"
"For home party."(other meaning is group sex in Taiwan)
"Yes, would you like to go?"
"No! I wouldn't."
"Just kidding, the transgender group is held by a genderism professor"

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5:00 p.m, Nov. 3
But we still discuss about training and the main page of the transgender group.
I heard a little voice said"sex, sex, sex......"
Is she so horny??? or I heard incorrectly???

That's right!
We talk about the subject "sex of transgender"
That's a big and complicated subject.
Let's talk about MTF trnasgender, first.
People maybe think a MTF who must loves men.
If a MTF who still love woman to be a lesbian.
Why does she take SRS??
Even most of gay and lesbian think so.
In fact, a part of MTF love woman.
So, gender identity and sexuality are different things.
Everyone knows why loves your partner,
because of his/her character, not his/her sex.
Like MTF admirers, who love feminine character in a male body.
You just love her feminine character.
And don't matter your partner with a cock or not, right?

Few members shared whose experience about
MTF in lesbian group and FTM in gay group.
That is interesting experience.
But, time is too short. It will continue next time.

I can't still understand why FTM like to do something.
Well, that's OK. That's not my business.
Respect is the First.